Guidelines for a Meaningful Experience

Welcome to my guidelines page. These guidelines are designed to help you prepare for your session, ensuring that you have a meaningful, comfortable, and enriching experience. Whether you are joining me for a spiritual healing session, a mediumship reading, or another offering, these guidelines will provide you with everything you need to know before we begin. I’m honored to be a part of your journey and look forward to connecting with you

  • Thank you for your interest in my offerings. My wish is to provide you with a reading that brings comfort, validation, and empowerment. My intention is to facilitate healing in every session. Over the years, I have conducted thousands of readings, and I’ve noticed that those who experience the most profound connections are often those who approach the reading with an open heart and mind. Your energy and attitude significantly impact the session, so I ask that you come with a positive and open outlook.

    The Nature of the Experience

    Mediumship is a collaborative process involving Spirit, myself, and you. To ensure a meaningful connection, it's important that you participate with an open mind and heart. While I do not control which Spirits come through, I will do my utmost to convey the messages they wish to share. It’s helpful to take notes during your session, as details can easily be forgotten.

    Grief and Mediumship

    Trust is essential for a successful reading. I understand that grief can be overwhelming, especially in the early stages. If you are newly grieving, it may be beneficial to give yourself some time before booking a reading. This is not because Spirit needs time, but because you, as a human being, may need space to process your loss. I believe it’s in your best interest to wait until you feel ready, as an early reading might not yield the connection you hope for, potentially amplifying your heartache.

    Mediumship Expectations

    It’s important to recognize that Spirit will offer what you need, which may differ from what you want. Mediumship is not always predictable, and while I strive to connect with Spirit for each session, there are times when the connection may not be as strong. If, within the first 5-10 minutes, I feel that the connection is not authentic or accurate, I will inform you and offer a refund. You also have the right to end the session within the first 10 minutes if it doesn’t feel right for you. However, once we continue past this point, refunds will no longer be available.

    Substance Use

    To maintain the integrity of the reading, I ask that no recreational drugs or alcohol be consumed the night before or the day of the session. These substances can interfere with your personal energy and the overall experience. Regular medications are fine, but please refrain from using alcohol or recreational drugs. If I notice that you have consumed these substances, I will be unable to proceed with the reading.

    Recording the Session

    I do not consent to being recorded via audio or video, though you are welcome to take notes.

    Rescheduling and Cancellations

    Life can be unpredictable, and I understand that things come up. If you need to reschedule your reading, please let me know as soon as possible. If you decide to cancel, I offer refunds up to 48 hours before the scheduled appointment. I will call you at the time of your appointment using the phone number provided in your booking. If you do not answer, I will leave a voicemail or a text message. If I don’t hear from you within 10 minutes of the scheduled time, the appointment will be considered a no-show, and no refunds will be given. If you are late, we can still proceed with the session, but I may not be able to provide the full 40 minutes.

    Payment Details

    Prepayment is required to secure your appointment. If you agree to these guidelines, I look forward to our session together.

  • Thank you for your interest in my offerings. My wish is to provide you with a reading that brings comfort, validation, and empowerment. My intention is to facilitate healing in every session. Over the years, I have conducted thousands of readings, and I’ve noticed that those who experience the most profound connections are often those who approach the reading with an open heart and mind. Your energy and attitude significantly impact the session, so I ask that you come with a positive and open outlook.


    APPOINTMENT LOCATION

    Your appointment will take place at the following address:

    2753 O’Hara Lane

    Surrey

    The studio space I use is called Love of Avery Kind.

    There is free parking available at the back of the building and on the surrounding side streets.

    The Nature of the Experience

    Mediumship is a collaborative process involving Spirit, myself, and you. To ensure a meaningful connection, it's important that you participate with an open mind and heart. While I do not control which Spirits come through, I will do my utmost to convey the messages they wish to share. It’s helpful to take notes during your session, as details can easily be forgotten.

    Grief and Mediumship

    Trust is essential for a successful reading. I understand that grief can be overwhelming, especially in the early stages. If you are newly grieving, it may be beneficial to give yourself some time before booking a reading. This is not because Spirit needs time, but because you, as a human being, may need space to process your loss. I believe it’s in your best interest to wait until you feel ready, as an early reading might not yield the connection you hope for, potentially amplifying your heartache.

    Mediumship Expectations

    It’s important to recognize that Spirit will offer what you need, which may differ from what you want. Mediumship is not always predictable, and while I strive to connect with Spirit for each session, there are times when the connection may not be as strong. If, within the first 5-10 minutes, I feel that the connection is not authentic or accurate, I will inform you and offer a refund. You also have the right to end the session within the first 10 minutes if it doesn’t feel right for you. However, once we continue past this point, refunds will no longer be available.

    Substance Use

    To maintain the integrity of the reading, I ask that no recreational drugs or alcohol be consumed the night before or the day of the session. These substances can interfere with your personal energy and the overall experience. Regular medications are fine, but please refrain from using alcohol or recreational drugs. If I notice that you have consumed these substances, I will be unable to proceed with the reading.

    Recording the Session

    I do not consent to being recorded via audio or video, though you are welcome to take notes.

    Rescheduling and Cancellations

    Life can be unpredictable, and I understand that things come up. If you need to reschedule your reading, please let me know as soon as possible. If you decide to cancel, I offer refunds up to 48 hours before the scheduled appointment. I will call you at the time of your appointment using the phone number provided. If you do not answer, I will leave a voicemail or text. If I don’t hear from you within 10 minutes of the scheduled time, the appointment will be considered a no-show, and no refunds will be given. If you are late, we can still proceed with the session, but I may not be able to provide the full 40 minutes.

    Payment Details

    Prepayment is required to secure your appointment. If you agree to these guidelines, I look forward to our session together.

  • Health Precautions

    If you or any of your guests are feeling unwell, please stay home. The health and well-being of all participants are a priority.

    The Nature of the Experience

    A group reading is a sacred opportunity to connect with loved ones in Spirit. This is a healing experience, not entertainment. Your intention and energy play a significant role in the quality of the connection. Coming with an open heart and mind is key to receiving the most meaningful messages.

    Important:

    Please do not attend with the intention of testing me or being disrespectful. If I sense any negativity or disruptive behavior, I reserve the right to ask the guest to leave or, in extreme cases, to end the session without a refund.

    Substance Use

    To maintain the integrity of the reading, I ask that no recreational drugs or alcohol be consumed the night before or the day of the session. These substances can interfere with your personal energy and the overall experience. Regular medications are fine. If I arrive and notice guests drinking, I will not be able to proceed with the reading.

    Recording the Session

    If you would like to record the group reading, please inform me in advance. All guests must consent to the recording. Recordings are for personal use only and should not be edited, posted online, or sold without my explicit permission.

    Arrival Time

    I will arrive right at the scheduled time, not earlier, to preserve the integrity of your reading. I prefer to know nothing about you or your loved ones in Spirit before we begin, so arriving on time helps avoid pre-reading conversations.

    Mediumship Expectations

    While I will do my best to connect with Spirit for each guest, mediumship is not guaranteed for everyone. It is ultimately up to Spirit who comes through and what messages are shared. If a spirit connection is not made, you may receive a psychic message, an oracle card reading, or have the opportunity to ask me a question.

    Please allow me to work in my unique way and respect the process.

    Group Size and Duration

    • Maximum Number of Guests: 10

    • Session Duration: Approximately 120 minutes

    Payment Details

    Please decide with your guests how you will handle payment.

    Payment options include:

    • Email Transfer: Send the full payment to melissawhitemedium@gmail.com using the password “white” (one transfer from the host, please).

    • Credit Card: Payment can be made before the appointment—just let me know in advance.

    • Cash: You may also collect cash from your guests prior to the reading.

    The flat rate applies even if not every guest receives a mediumistic communication. Regardless, everyone will benefit from the experience, whether through a direct spirit connection, psychic insight, or the healing energy present during the session.

    Creating the Right Atmosphere

    Invite guests who seek healing, connection with Spirit, and peace of mind. The session is intended to be uplifting, healing, and inspiring.

  • APPOINTMENT LOCATION

    Your appointment will take place at the following address:

    2753 O’Hara Lane

    Surrey

    The studio space I use is called Love of Avery Kind.

    There is free parking available at the back of the building and on the surrounding side streets.

    The Healing Experience

    When you arrive, I will take a few minutes to chat with you before beginning the healing session. You will then be invited to either sit in a comfortable chair or lay down on a massage table, depending on your preference. I’ll ensure your comfort throughout the session.

    I will invite you to close your eyes and simply relax as I enter into a deeply meditative state. During this time, I will invite your spirit guides, angels, and loved ones in Spirit to assist in bringing forth healing energy to soothe your mind, body, and soul. I’ll also play music specifically chosen to align with your energy and needs.


    Each client’s experience during a spiritual healing session is unique. However, many clients find these sessions to be deeply relaxing and rejuvenating.

    Post-Session Discussion

    At the end of your session, there will be some time to discuss what you felt, saw, and experienced during the healing. Please note that these sessions are not mediumship readings, and I will not be offering mediumship during these healing appointments.

    Recording the Session

    I do not consent to being recorded via audio or video, though you are welcome to take notes.

    Rescheduling and Cancellations

    Life can be unpredictable, and I understand that things come up. If you need to reschedule your reading, please let me know as soon as possible. If you decide to cancel, I offer refunds up to 48 hours before the scheduled appointment.

    Substance Use

    To maintain the integrity of the reading, I ask that no recreational drugs or alcohol be consumed the night before or the day of the session. These substances can interfere with your personal energy and the overall experience. Regular medications are fine, but please refrain from using alcohol or recreational drugs. If I notice that you have consumed these substances, I will be unable to proceed with the reading.

    Payment Details

    Prepayment is required to secure your appointment. If you agree to these guidelines, I look forward to our session together.